1) Lavinia, Octavia Butler (electronic)
2) The Pairing, Casey McQuiston (electronic)
3) Rocky Start, Jennifer Crusie, Bob Mayer (electronic)
4) Welcome to Temptation, Jennifer Crusie (electronic)
5) Bet Me, Jennifer Crusie (electronic)
6) The Rosie Project, Graeme Simsion (electronic)
7) Manhunting, Jennifer Crusie (electronic)
8) Pippi Goes On Board, Astrid Lindgren, translated by Florence Lamborn
9) Preferential Treatment, Heather Guerre (electronic)
10) The Masquerades of Spring, Ben Aaronovitch (audiobook)
11) Very Nice Funerals, Jennifer Crusie, Bob Mayer (electronic)
12) The Windeby Puzzle, Lois Lowry (electronic)
13) Wild Ride, Jennifer Crusie, Bob Mayer (electronic)
14) Raising the Bar, Avery Kane (electronic)
15) Gur Fvashy Jnlf bs Wnzvr Znpxramvr, Jennifer Ashley (electronic)
16) Spellbound, Heather Guerre (electronic)
17) The Secret of Bow Lane, Jennifer Ashley (electronic)
18) Venetia, Georgette Heyer (electronic)
19) The Arrangement, Mary Balogh (electronic)
20) The Weaver Takes a Wife, Sheri Cobb South (electronic)
21) The Honey Pot Plot, Jennifer Crusie, Bob Mayer (electronic)
22) Vikings: A Very Short Introduction, Julian D. Richards
23) Max in the House of Lies, Adam Gidwitz (electronic)
24) One Hundred Saturdays, Michael Frank (electronic)
25) Mio My Son, Astrid Lindgren, translated by Jill Morgan
26) Kantika, Elizabeth Graver (electronic)
27) The Miscalculations of Lightning Girl, Stacy McAnulty (electronic)

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Casey McQuiston: Settle for nothing less than the most.

Emily Oster: Yes, I take my hobbies too seriously, thanks for noticing. -September 19, 2024

Gaarakotq (on Reddit): My dad always says “you need to be in shape to ski but skiing doesn’t get you in shape”

Tim Urban: It doesn’t matter how much I like the guy, how much I agree with him, how much I feel desperate about the country. That is actually a support beam issue in the house.

Megan McArdle: The answer is that there is barely any party beyond Trump. Ideology and organization have both given way to Trumpian whimsy. He might not succeed in his dreams of restoring the American empire, but within the Republican Party, his imperial rule seems near-absolute. Whatever the emperor decrees, his subjects must apparently go along — even if the emperor decides they will be buried with him. -April 1, 2025
katestine: (reading)
1) The Queen's Weapons, Anne Bishop (electronic)
2) The Burning Maze, Rick Riordan (electronic)
3) Tangled Webs, Anne Bishop (electronic, re-read)
4) The Tyrant's Tomb, Rick Riordan (electronic)
5) The Poppy War, R. F. Kuang (electronic)
6) The Tower of Nero, Rick Riordan (electronic)
7) Whip Smart, Melissa Febos (electronic)
8) The Sun and the Star, Rick Riordan (electronic)
9) Call Me Irresistible, Susan Elizabeth Phillips (electronic)
10) The Invisible Hour, Alice Hoffman (electronic)
11) Akata Witch, Nnedi Okorafor
12) The Book of V., Anna Solomon (electronic)
13) The Spy, Paulo Coelho
14) The Secret Chord, Geraldine Brooks (electronic)
15) Simply the Best, Susan Elizabeth Phillips (electronic)
15) Horse, Geraldine Brooks (electronic)
16) Rivers of London: Deadly Ever After, Ben Aaronovitch, Andrew Cartmel, Celeste Bronfman (electronic)
17) The Lady in Glass and Other Stories, Anne Bishop (electronic)
18) Camp Jupiter Classified, Rick Riordan
19) People We Meet on Vacation, Emily Henry (electronic)
20) Max in the House of Spies, Adam Gidwitz (electronic)
21) The Way of the Hive, Jay Hosler (electronic)
22) Certain to Win, Chet Richards (electronic)
23) The Demigods of Olympus, Rick Riordan (electronic)
24) My Brilliant Friend, Elena Ferrante (electronic)
25) Appetites & Vices, Felicia Grossman (electronic)
26) The Story of a New Name, Elena Ferrante (electronic)
27) Master of Change, Brad Stulberg (electronic)
28) Recipe for Adventure: Naples, Giada De Laurentiis (electronic)
29) Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay, Elena Ferrante (electronic)
30) The Story of the Lost Child, Elena Ferrante (electronic)
31) The Thieves of Ostia, Caroline Lawrence (electronic)
32) The Secrets of Vesuvius, Caroline Lawrence (electronic)
33) The Pirates of Pompeii, Caroline Lawrence (electronic)
34) The Assassins of Rome, Caroline Lawrence (electronic)
35) Death Comes as the End, Agatha Christie (electronic)
36) The Lion's Den, Katherine St. John
37) Romancing Mr. Bridgerton, Julia Quinn (electronic)
38) A Queen from the North, Erin McRae, Racheline Maltese (electronic, re-read)
39) Chasing Vermeer, Blue Balliett
40) So Sweet, Rebekah Weatherspoon (electronic)
41) What My Bones Know, Stephanie Foo (electronic)
42) Meegan, Rebekah Weatherspoon (electronic)
43) One Last Stop, Casey McQuiston (electronic, re-read)
44) A Place at the Table, Saadia Faruqi, Laura Shovan (electronic)
45) The Great Ringtail Garbage Caper, Timothy Foote
46) Ant Story, Jay Hosler (electronic)
47) The Chalice of the Gods, Rick Riordan (electronic, re-read)
48) Operation Bethlehem, Yariv Inbar (electronic)
49) Spy School at Sea, Stuart Gibbs (electronic)
50) Wrath of the Triple Goddess, Rick Riordan (electronic)
51) Big Bad Ironclad, Nathan Hale (electronic)
52) Buried Deep and Other Stories, Naomi Novik (electronic)
53) Amongst Our Weapons, Ben Aaronovitch (electronic, re-read)
54) 1% Leadership, Andy Ellis (electronic)
55) Make Your Bed, Adm. William H. McRaven (electronic)
56) The Wright 3, Blue Balliett
57) Dead Ice, Laurell K. Hamilton (electronic)
58) The Man Who Sold Air in the Holy Land, Omer Friedlander
59) The Last Interview, Eshkol Nevo (electronic)
60) Miss Amelia’s List, Mercedes Lackey (electronic)

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Delia Falconer: The West didn’t invent the opium trade… Instead — as with the Atlantic coast traffic in human beings — it took a pre-existing practice and expanded it exponentially. -February 13, 2024

Margo Jefferson: Memoir is your present negotiating with versions of your past for a future you're willing to show up in.

Jennifer Weiner: Hazell’s prose is as tart and icy as lemon sorbet; her sentences are whipcord taut, drum tight. The only time she indulges in description is when Piglet’s cooking or eating. Then, the writing becomes lush and lavish, with mouthwatering descriptions. -February 22, 2024

Sloan Crosley: We were not depressed all the time, no. Sometimes we were drunk.

Ashley C. Ford: In Afterward, she comes to understand this realization could have been Perreault’s ultimate desire for her — maybe he wanted her to know that at some point, you have to face the feral emotion you’ve been locking in a cage and distracting with a funny bone. You have to face your life, and your dead, so that you may live. -2/28/24

Courtney Milan: It helps me to think of the act of planning as something like a hobby of writing alternate universe fan fiction about a more competent version of myself.

Susan Sontag: To love someone was to tolerate imperfections one would never excuse in oneself.

Mistress Mary Poppins: Stop parallel pathing so many tasks so you can drop the one you like the least. -March 21, 2024

Brad Stulberg: If you expect and predict life to be hard, then you won’t be surprised when it is—which in and of itself makes life easier, and also improves your chances of finding equanimity and meaning amidst change and struggle.

Maureen Dowd: Even Ms. von Furstenberg’s sartorial creation was at cross-purposes, designed to let women be sexy and practical. It had no zipper, she said, so that you could slip out of lover’s room without waking him — “just like a man.” It was a dress to seduce a man while impressing his mother. -6/6/24

David Brooks: journalists go into this business to inform and provoke, but many outlets have found they can generate clicks by telling partisan viewers how right they are about everything. Minute after minute they’re rubbing their audience’s pleasure centers, which feels like a somewhat older profession. -9/5/24

Jackson McHenry: Also, most of the people in Elsbeth’s New York have a Drama Desk nomination. -March 1, 2024

Michael J. Fox: life gets better the more you decide to take it easy on yourself

2023 Books

Dec. 31st, 2023 06:08 am
katestine: (reading)
1) An Offer from a Gentleman, Julia Quinn (electronic)
2) The Bridgertons Happily Ever After, Julia Quinn (electronic)
3) Raid of No Return, Nathan Hale
4) The Portrait of a Duchess, Scarlett Peckham (electronic)
5) A Lady for a Duke, Alexis Hall (electronic)
6) American Queen, Sierra Simone (electronic)
7) Down City, Leah Carroll (electronic)
8) The Rogue You Know, Shana Galen (electronic)
9) The Villa, Rachel Hawkins (electronic)
10) Into the West, Mercedes Lackey (electronic)
11) Turn Right at Machu Picchu, Mark Adams
12) The Blue Castle, L. M. Montgomery (electronic)
13) Addison Cooke and the Treasure of the Incas, Jonathan W. Stokes (electronic)
14) By the Book, Jasmine Guillory (electronic)
15) Red, White, and Royal Blue, Casey McQuiston (re-read)
16) Pompeii, Robert Harris (electronic)
17) Genhzn naq Erpbirel, Judith L. Herman (electronic)
18) I Survived The Destruction Of Pompeii, 79AD, Lauren Tarshis
19) Agent 355, Marie Benedict, Emily Rankin (audiobook)
20) Gur Obql Xrrcf gur Fpber, Bessel van der Kolk (electronic)
21) Among the Shadows, L. M. Montgomery, Rea Wilmshurst
22) Love's Labours, Erin McRae, Racheline Maltese (electronic)
23) Goodbye Paradise, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
24) The Queen's Bargain, Anne Bishop
25) The Chalice of the Gods, Rick Riordan (electronic)
26) The Queen's Price, Anne Bishop (electronic)
27) The Hidden Oracle, Rick Riordan (electronic)
28) Dreams Made Flesh, Anne Bishop (electronic, re-read)
29) The House of Hades, Rick Riordan (electronic, re-read)
30) The Blood of Olympus, Rick Riordan (electronic)
31) Twilight’s Dawn, Anne Bishop (electronic, re-read)
32) The Demigod Files, Rick Riordan (electronic)
33) The Demigod Diaries, Rick Riordan (electronic)
34) The Dark Prophecy, Rick Riordan (electronic)
35) Valdemar, Mercedes Lackey (electronic)

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John Branch: a tonic to the media-obsessed, big-money, guide-led, fixed-rope conga-line parades on mountains like Everest. -12/6/23

Slate Star Codex: The implicit question is – if everyone hates the current system, who perpetuates it? And Ginsberg answers: “Moloch”. It’s powerful not because it’s correct – nobody literally thinks an ancient Carthaginian demon causes everything – but because thinking of the system as an agent throws into relief the degree to which the system isn’t an agent.

James Clear: if you commit to a task rather than thinking about a desire, you get something done.
1) Murder in the East End, Jennifer Ashley (electronic)
2) Death at the Crystal Palace, Jennifer Ashley (electronic)
3) The Silver Bullets of Annie Oakley, Mercedes Lackey (electronic)
4) The Pasha of Cuisine, Saygin Ersin (electronic)
5) Sword Stone Table, ed. Swapna Krishna (electronic)
6) Blood of a Gladiator, Ashley Gardner (electronic, re-read)
7) Brooklynaire, Sarina Bowen (electronic, re-read)
8) Finish: Give Yourself the Gift of Done, Jon Acuff (electronic)
9) Atomic Habits, James Clear (electronic)
10) I Kissed Shara Wheeler, Casey McQuiston (electronic)
11) Must Love Hockey, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
12) Lord John and the Private Matter, Diana Gabaldon (electronic)
13) Amongst Our Weapons, Ben Aaronovitch (electronic)
14) Lord John and the Hand of Devils, Diana Gabaldon (electronic)
15) A Caribbean Heiress in Paris, Adriana Herrera (electronic)
16) A Queen From the North, Erin McRae, Racheline Maltese (electronic, re-read)
17) The Duke I Tempted, Scarlett Peckham (electronic, re-read)
18) Last Night at the Telegraph Club, Malinda Lo (electronic)
19) Zachary Ying and the Dragon Emperor, Xiran Jay Zhao (electronic)
20) Iron Widow, Xiran Jay Zhao (electronic)
21) Can You Crack the Code?, Ella Schwartz
22) The Lightning Thief, Rick Riordan (electronic, re-read)
23) Love Lessons, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
24) Bountiful, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
25) Speakeasy, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
26) Fireworks, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
27) Assassin's Creed: Gold, Anthony Del Col (audiobook)
28) Shenanigans, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
29) The Sea of Monsters, Rick Riordan (electronic, re-read)
30) The Titan's Curse, Rick Riordan (electronic, re-read)
31) The Battle of the Labyrinth, Rick Riordan (re-read)
32) The Last Olympian, Rick Riordan (electronic, re-read)
33) Book Lovers, Emily Henry (electronic)
34) The Lost Hero, Rick Riordan (electronic, re-read)
35) Down and Out in Paris and London, George Orwell (electronic)
36) The Viscount Who Loved Me, Julia Quinn (electronic)
37) The Other Miss Bridgerton, Julia Quinn (electronic)
38) The Son of Neptune, Rick Riordan (electronic, re-read)

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MeanestTA (on Twitter): Chihuahuas are what happens when you try running cat software on dog hardware. 50lbs of quivering rage and anxiety in a 5lb body. -4/18/22

K. B. Spangler: The government of Florida has picked a really weird fight with the hegemonic princess manufacturer. -4/20/22

2021 books

Dec. 31st, 2021 06:03 am
katestine: (reading)
1) The Vanishing Half, Brit Bennett (electronic)
2) The Wife Upstairs, Rachel Hawkins (electronic)
3) Pbzznaq Zr, Geneva Lee (electronic)
4) Jvaare, Harley Slate (electronic)
5) Blood of a Gladiator, Ashley Gardner (electronic)
6) Surrey SFS, Nicola Davidson (electronic)
7) The Lady's Guide to Celestial Mechanics, Olivia Waite (electronic)
8) The Lawrence Browne Affair, Cat Sebastian (electronic)
9) Past Crimes, Ashley Gardner (electronic)
10) The Glass House, Ashley Gardner (electronic)
11) Bombshells, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
12) Nimisha's Ship, Anne McCaffrey (electronic)
13) Gnxvat Gheaf, J A Huss (electronic)
14) Unmasked by the Marquess, Cat Sebastian (electronic)
15) A Gladiator's Tale, Ashley Gardner (electronic)
16) The Conjurer, Luanne G. Smith (electronic)
17) Rookie Move, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
18) Hard Hitter, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
19) Pipe Dreams, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
20) Guerr-Jnl Fcyvg, Elia Winters (electronic)
21) Whfg Cnfg Gjb, Elia Winters (electronic)
22) Magic Tree House Super Edition #1: World at War 1944, Mary Pope Osborne (electronic)
23) Bellweather Rhapsody, Kate Racculia (electronic)
24) Combustion, Elia Winters (electronic)
25) The Heiress, Molly Greeley (electronic)
26) One Last Stop, Casey McQuiston (electronic)
27) When Stars Collide Susan Elizabeth Phillips (electronic)
28) Don't Feed the Trolls, Erica Kudisch (electronic)
29) Death Below Stairs, Jennifer Ashley (electronic)
30) Science Comics: Skyscrapers, The Height of Engineering, John Kerschbaum
31) Jolene, Mercedes Lackey (electronic)
32) Scandal Above Stairs, Jennifer Ashley (electronic)
33) Beyond, Mercedes Lackey (electronic)
34) The Bright and Breaking Sea, Chloe Neill (electronic)
35) The Governess Game, Tessa Dare (electronic)
36) Bepuvq Pyho: Cnevf, Lila Davis (electronic)
37) The Echo Wife, Sarah Gailey (electronic)
38) What Abigail Did That Summer, Ben Aaronovitch (audiobook)
Didn't finish: The Dragonet Prophecy by Tui T. Sutherland, Razorblade Tears by S. A. Crosby (recommended by Stephen King!), Pbzvat Hc sbe Nve by Amanda Meuwisset
39) Peace Talks, Jim Butcher
40) The Book of Magic, Alice Hoffman (electronic)
41) Death in Kew Gardens, Jennifer Ashley (electronic)
42) The Deal, Elle Kennedy (electronic)
43) Loverboy, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
44) Heroes in Training: Hyperion and the Great Balls of Fire, Joan Holub
45) Dangerous Secrets: The Story of Iduna and Agnarr, Mari Mancusi (electronic)
46) This Poison Heart, Kalynn Bayron (electronic)
47) The Ex Hex, Erin Sterling (electronic)
48) Payback's a Witch, Lana Harper (electronic)
49) Olympus, Texas, Stacey Swann (electronic)

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Sarah Lyall: ... as if the book were written specifically to help a lost prince heal his psychic wounds. 6/11/2021

A. O Scott: We aren’t so much addicted to screens as indentured to them, paying back whatever convenience, knowledge or pleasure they provide with our time and our consciousness. The screen doesn’t care what we are looking at, as long as our eyes are engaged and our data can be harvested. -7/15/21

Anatol Lieven: For all the real effort they made in Afghanistan, most NATO countries involved might as well have performed national dances at US presidential inaugurations to display their allegiance and amuse their imperial protectors. -8/27/21

Florence H. R. Scott: What we DO know is that she became an abbess through the virtue of her daddy, a king, building and giving her her own monastery. So if Mogg thinks saintly virtue and nepotism are the same thing, well I'm not at all surprised. So what we've got here is an emaciated sentient balustrade evoking the medieval Ivanka Trump for the purposes of a veiled (get it) nationalism when discussing corruption. Why? I have no idea. -12/13/21

Agnes Crawford: Like Johnson, Rees-Mogg wears his learning very heavily, but there seems to be little of substance below the bluster. -12/13/21

Nayland Blake: Think King Midas but everything he touches turns digital and he can no longer touch it. -12/16/21

Nayland Blake: In a terrain mined with snares for our attention and concern, where can we rest and do the work we need? -12/29/21
katestine: (pic#11747139)
I'm really writing this on New Year's day, when it's still trippy to see the date in front of me.

I've been thinking this morning about what a good year it was, how many good memories I have. In the early days of the pandemic, watching Andrew Lloyd Webber musicals on the weekends with the boys. Watching the baby's first steps, because they were right outside the door of my bedroom where I was working. The 5yo sitting in my lap and doing math. Epic Reading Challenges. Taking the kids to Brooklyn Bridge Park for fresh air and frisbee and later Prospect Park for soccer classes, like a mom.

There was health stuff. Jon went to the hospital for 3 nights in January, which was hard and scary. We were all sick in March, with our long-time babysitter very sick until May. If there hadn't been a global pandemic to scare us, it might not have made my New Year's post. Jon and I are both much more out of shape today than we were a year ago, due to more child care, less commuting. I sometimes think I'm overly conscientious to still be doing my PT exercises years and decades later, but then my body decompensated in late November with back pain and then last week I sprained my "good" ankle. d'oh!

Last year I couldn't figure out how we'd handle all the travel we had planned for the first half of the year: spring break in Florida, Jon's reunions in April and May, Boston in June to see Nayland's show and my friends. Obviously it worked out. Jon and Lucky went to Joshua Tree for a boys trip in February and I'm so very glad they did. My son's spring break with grandma in March got turned into a family trip (sans grandma) in August. Club Med was wonderful: Jon took me sailing and we had lunch with wine and no children. I had a marvelous golf lesson, tried flying trapeze for the first time, and went to the pool with the kids. The 5yo loved it.

I finished 54 books, which sounds better than the 41 and 42 from the prior two years, except only one was non-fiction (and I finished that in November). Commuting time was good for reading little bits of non-fiction, which I'd be inspired to continue when I got home. I read A LOT about viruses and epidemiology this year, just not in book form. I didn't read any quality books, but there were several series and enjoyable themes, occasionally NSFW ) Alice Hoffman came out with a prequel to my favorite book and I liked it very much. Ready Player Two's ending was so bad, I wish I'd never started the book. My diversity reads were Gods of Jade and Shadow by Silvia Moreno-Garcia (excellent, because of the completely novel to me story) and The Kiss Quotient by Helen Hoang (terrible, despite the Vietnamese protagonist). I finally read The Red Tent, which I found haunting, and really made me question a lot of my deeply held beliefs.

I think I was better at generosity this year - goodness knows there were plenty of opportunities. I made no progress on face blindness and the less said about my weight, the better.

My resolutions for 2021 are:
  • to be more productive by using my time better (less doomscrolling!);
  • to be more careful what I say around the children;
  • to help my husband more around the house;
  • to have a more organized apt at the end of the year (I have the Before picture oy);
  • to build a relationship, at work or personally.
Oh, and to travel more, maybe?
katestine: (reading)
1) The Vine Witch, Luanne G. Smith (electronic)
2) Rivers of London, vol 6: Water Weed, Ben Aaronovitch, Andrew Cartmel, Lee Sullivan, Luis Guerrero
3) Brooklynaire, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
4) Warprize, Elizabeth Vaughan (electronic)
5) Superfan, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
6) Moonlighter, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
7) White Tiger, Aravind Adiga
8) A Study in Sable, Mercedes Lackey (electronic)
9) A Scandal in Battersea, Mercedes Lackey (electronic)
10) The Bartered Brides, Mercedes Lackey (electronic)
11) Fhozvggvat gb gur Znedhrff, E. M. Brown (electronic)
12) Fhozvggvat sbe Puevfgznf, E. M. Brown (electronic)
13) The Wizard of London, Mercedes Lackey (electronic, re-read?)
14) Gods of Jade and Shadow, Silvia Moreno-Garcia (electronic)
15) Once Upon a Time, Alessandra Hazard (electronic)
16) Top Secret, Sarina Bowen and Elle Kennedy (electronic)
17) False Value, Ben Aaronovitch (electronic)
18) Master and Commander, Patrick O'Brian (electronic, re-read)
19) Beach Read, Emily Henry (electronic)
20) Dance Away with Me, Susan Elizabeth Phillips (electronic)
21) Inside Jobs, Ben H. Winters (audiobook)
22) Ynql va Erq, Zry Grfupb (electronic)
23) The Ickabog, J. K. Rowling (electronic)
24) The Glamourist, Luanne G. Smith (electronic)
25) The Duke I Tempted, Scarlett Peckham (electronic)
26) The Kiss Quotient, Helen Hoang (electronic)
27) Overnight Sensation, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
28) Hanover Square Affair, Ashley Gardner (electronic)
29) The Beast of Beswick, Amalie Howard (electronic)
30) The Earl I Ruined, Scarlett Peckham (electronic)
31) The Lord I Left, Scarlett Peckham (electronic)
32) The Duchess Deal, Tessa Dare (electronic)
33) Tales from the Folly, Ben Aaronovitch (electronic)
34) A Duke, the Lady, and a Baby, Vanessa Riley (electronic)
35) The Red Tent, Anita Diamant (electronic)
36) Sure Shot, Sarina Bowen (electronic)
37) Beauty's Kingdom, A. N. Roquelaure (electronic)
38) The Rakess, Scarlett Peckham (electronic)
39) Magic Lessons, Alice Hoffman (electronic)
40) Magic Lessons, Alice Hoffman (electronic, re-read)
41) Would I Lie to the Duke, Eva Leigh (electronic)
42) Fheeraqre gb Fva, Nicola Davidson (electronic)
43) Gur Qrivy'f Fhozvffvba, Nicola Davidson (electronic)
44) Spin the Dawn, Elizabeth Lim (electronic)
45) The October Man, Ben Aaronovitch (audiobook)
46) Andrew Jackson and the Miracle of New Orleans, Brian Kilmeade, Don Yeager (audiobook)
47) Obhaq gb or n Tebbz, Megan Mulry (electronic)
48) Poison or Protect, Gail Carriger (electronic)
49) Obhaq gb or n Tebbz, Megan Mulry (electronic)
50) Gur Qrivy'f Fhozvffvba, Nicola Davidson (electronic, re-read)
51) The Art of Three, Erin McRae, Racheline Maltese (electronic)
52) Ready Player Two, Ernest Cline (electronic)
53) A Queen from the North, Erin McRae, Racheline Maltese (electronic)
54) The Art of Leaving, Ayelet Tsabari (electronic)
55) Tentacle, Rita Indiana (electronic)

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Jacob Falkovich: Romance is the most complex and rewarding multi-player game that humanity has invented. -1/13/20

David Fahrenthold: The Trump Hotel was a Petri dish for bad ideas. -1/16/20

Michael Kimmelman: the coronavirus undermines our most basic ideas about community and, in particular, urban life... cities also grew, less tangibly, out of deeply human social and spiritual needs. The very notion of streets, shared housing and public spaces stemmed from and fostered a kind of collective affirmation, a sense that people are all in this together. Pandemics prey on this relentlessly. They are anti-urban. -3/17/20

Newsha Tavakolian: The fear is everywhere. Fear of death, fear of the future. Fear of a terrible year ahead. My past year has already been terrible. Like now with coronavirus, life forced me to stop and drop everything. It did so in ways I could’ve never imagined. -3/21/20

Anya Kamenetz: The phone is like a fentanyl lollipop; yes, it's possible to abuse, but our pain, and the massive pain of the world driving us to it, is arguably the real problem. -7/27/20

Megan Mulry: There it was: the realization that she wanted him to be happy. That she did not need to be the sole source of his happiness. That she would revel in his happiness as he reveled in hers.
katestine: (signs in the stars)
2019 was the year I explored Brooklyn. Starting with my prenatal classes, which took me to Prospect Heights; my hairdresser moving to Crown Heights; a bachelorette party in Greenpoint and Williamsburg; mommy-group took me all over Bed-Stuy and Park Slope and everything in between; and swim lessons in Tribeca (that's extra-northern Brooklyn). I even did a photo shoot in East New York. It was a good thing: my sons will forever call themselves "from Brooklyn", so it was time for me to stop being a borough snob.

I had a baby, which is to say I made a new human whom I love to bits in ways I never knew possible. I struggle with acting consistently, every day, with that deep love, but it's so there. (Like when I ignore the noises he's making to get my attention to instead update the Intarwebs.)

We did a bit of travel. I had a sleepover with my girlfriends in cool Brooklyn; we went to a wedding in Long Island; my reunion in Cambridge at a fancy hotel; most of a week at the shore and with my in-laws; a pre-back-to-work Disney cruise to Bermuda (loved Bermuda, have already picked the cruise I want to do there next, and the Disney part grows in my memories); and then a long trip in December with the older boys, including a cruise to Mexico and Honduras (loved our port stops, loved our room, started booking our next RC cruise while on board) and New Year's Eve at Disney (less of a fan, even though we rode a new Star Wars ride and had lunch at Be Our Guest).

My father-in-law died. I'm really glad we saw him in August, so that we could get that final reminder there was no him left by the Alzheimers.

We got wallpaper and new furniture for our bedroom, which looks gorgeous.

I can't believe I read less in 2019 than 2018, but I hit points in August and December where I just didn't want to read for weeks. OTOH, I also had long runs of non-fiction only, so I dunno what it all means. 37% were non-fiction, less than 2018 oddly enough, but it felt higher quality. My favorite book I read all year was the second, American Nations by Colin Woodard; he also wrote my favorite pirate book, The Republic of Pirates, but I can't bring myself to read any of his other books. I really really enjoyed Pat Conroy's South of Broad and Casey McQuiston's Red, White, and Royal Blue. Enjoying The Golem and the Jinni lead me to read The City of Brass, which I enjoyed much more before I learned S. A. Chakraborty is a white chick from NJ. For the first time I can remember, I didn't read a graphic novel all year, possibly because I forgot to look for new Ben Aaronovitch comics. The Rise and Fall of the Dinosaurs and 97 Orchard were also both excellent.

I have no idea how I did on last year's resolutions, to be more mindful of the mental states/cope of my nearest and dearest and to go easier on myself when I am imperfect.

Back in September, right before Jewish New Year, the universe started beating me over the head with the message to be more generous. I've had some success with my gratitude practice, but I've been terrible at turning my recognition of my own blessings into grace and kindness. I'm trying really hard this year though and it's already paying off. My other 2 resolutions for the year are to actually put some work into my face blindness, because I think it's hurting every part of my life, and to at some point during the year, either get back to a bodyweight squat or have a weight that starts with 11. I don't really care which I get.

2019 books

Dec. 31st, 2019 08:43 am
katestine: (reading)
1) Lies Sleeping, Ben Aaronovitch
2) American Nations, Colin Woodard (electronic)
3) Fhcreyngvir Fcrphyngvir Rebgvpn, ed. Cecilia Tan, Bethany Zaiatz (electronic)
4) Three Men in a Boat, Jerome K. Jerome (abridged, audiobook)
5) Provence, 1970: M. F. K. Fisher, Julia Child, James Beard, and the Reinvention of American Taste, Luke Barr (electronic)
6) White Noise, Don DeLillo (electronic)
7) Algorithms to Live By, Brian Christian and Tom Griffiths (electronic)
8) Daughters of the Night Sky, Aimie K. Runyan (electronic)
9) American Street, Ibi Zoboi (electronic)
10) Brain Rules for Baby, John Medina (re-read, electronic)
11) Jewish Pirates of the Caribbean, Edward Kritzler (electronic)
12) My Lady's Choosing, Kitty Curran, Larissa Zageris (electronic)
13) The Swamp Fox, John Oller (electronic)
14) Garlic and Sapphires, Ruth Reichl (electronic)
15) South of Broad, Pat Conroy (electronic)
16) Super Con, James Swain (electronic)
17) The Golem and the Jinni, Helene Wecker (electronic)
18) And a Bottle of Rum, Wayne Curtis (electronic)
19) The City of Brass, S. A. Chakraborty (electronic)
20) The Kingdom of Copper, S. A. Chakraborty (electronic)
21) Liquor, Poppy Z. Brite (electronic, re-read)
22) Good Man Friday, Barbara Hambly (electronic)
23) The Flowers of Vashnoi, Lois McMaster Bujold (audiobook)
24) Diplomatic Immunity, Lois McMaster Bujold (re-read, electronic)
25) Fvera Pnyy, Phoebe Alexander (electronic)
26) Narconomics: How to Run a Drug Cartel, Tom Wainwright
27) Shark's Fin and Sichuan Pepper, Fuchsia Dunlop (electronic)
28) The Happiness Advantage, Shawn Achor (electronic)
29) Cribsheet, Emily Oster (electronic)
30) Red, White, and Royal Blue, Casey McQuiston (electronic)
31) Quietly in Their Sleep, Donna Leon (electronic)
32) Orphan X, Gregg Hurwitz (electronic)
33) A Noble Radiance, Donna Leon (electronic)
34) Evvie Drake Starts Over, Linda Holmes (electronic)
35) Persuasion, Jane Austen (electronic)
36) Great at Work, Morten T. Hansen (electronic)
37) The Rise and Fall of the Dinosaurs, Steve Brusatte (electronic)
38) 97 Orchard, Jane Ziegelman (electronic)
39) Oernxvat gur Tvey, Kim Corum (electronic)
40) Royal Holiday, Jasmine Guillory (electronic)
41) Magic for Liars, Sarah Gailey (electronic)

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Emily Oster: The literature is oddly lacking in discussions of what happens, physically, to the mom after the baby arrives. Before the baby, you’re a vessel to be cherished and protected. After the baby, you’re a lactation-oriented baby accessory.

Emily Oster: Parenting [an infant] is a bit like being the dictator of a small, poorly functioning country.

Lois McMaster Bujold: She'd gone into her silent, highly reserved mode, which Miles had to school himself not to read as unhappy; it might just mean that she was processing too hard to remember to be animated. Fortunately, the ivory-carved expression also simulated aristocratic poise.

Shira: What if I made the radical choice not to worry?

2018 books

Dec. 31st, 2018 12:09 pm
1) The Wolf's Hour, Robert R. McCammon (electronic)
2) The Accidental Universe, Alan Lightman (audio)
3) The Leader's Checklist, Michael Useem (electronic)
4) Gur Zbafgre Juvfcrere, Abovyvf Errq (electronic)
5) Shalador's Lady, Anne M. Bishop (re-read, electronic)
6) The Shadow Queen, Anne M. Bishop (re-read, electronic)
7) Jim Butcher's The Dresden Files: Down Town, Jim Butcher,‎ Mark Powers,‎ Carlos Gomez
8) Binti: Home, Nnedi Okorafor (electronic)
9) The Monster Hunter Files, ed. Larry Correia,‎ Bryan Thomas Schmidt
10) The Great Train Robbery, Michael Crichton (electronic)
11) Artemis, Andy Weir (electronic)
12) Saint-Germain-des-Pres, John Baxter (electronic)
13) Mistress of Rome, Kate Quinn (electronic)
14) IQ, Joe Ide (electronic)
15) How to Grow Up, Michelle Tea
16) The Enchantment Emporium, Tanya Huff
17) Rivers of London, vol 4: Detective Stories, Ben Aaronovitch, Andrew Cartmel, Lee Sullivan, Luis Guerrero
18) Jim Butcher's The Dresden Files: Dog Men, Jim Butcher,‎ Mark Powers,‎ Diego Galinda
19) Mixed Up, ed. Nick Mamatas, Molly Tanzer (electronic)
20) End Zone, Don DeLillo
21) These Old Shades, Georgette Heyer (electronic)
22) The Edge of the World, Michael Pye (electronic)
23) Brief Cases, Jim Butcher
24) Pncgvir Cevapr, C. S. Pacat (electronic)
25) Rogue Heroes, Ben Macintyre (electronic)
26) The Woman Who Smashed Codes, Jason Fagone (electronic)
27) Spinning Silver, Naomi Novik
26) The Paris Wife, Paula McLain
27) Havana Nocturne, T. J. English (electronic)
28) Provenance, Ann Leckie
29) Stoned: Jewelry, Obsession, and How Desire Shapes the World, Aja Raden (electronic)
30) Levels of the Game, John McPhee (electronic)
31) The Shirt on His Back, Barbara Hambly (electronic)
32) Ran Away, Barbara Hambly (electronic)
33) The Hour Of Land, Terry Tempest Williams
34) Landscapes and Geomorphology, Andrew Goudie, Heather Viles (electronic)
35) The Lost City of Z, David Grann (electronic)
36) The Front Porch Prophet, Raymond L Atkins (electronic)
37) Jade City, Fonda Lee (electronic)
38) Monster Hunter Memoirs: Saints, Larry Correia, John Ringo
39) The Palace Job, Patrick Weekes
40) 21 Days to Resilience, Zelana Montminy (electronic)
41) Bad Girls, Alex de Campi, Victor Santos
42) Braiding Sweetgrass, Robin Wall Kimmerer (electronic)
katestine: (reading)
1) The Republic of Pirates, Colin Woodard
2) Binti, Nnedi Okorafor (electronic)
3) Two Years Eight Months and Twenty-Eight Nights, Salman Rushdie (electronic)
4) Rivers of London, vol 2: Night Witch, Ben Aaronovitch, Andrew Cartmel, Lee Sullivan, Luis Guerrero, Rob Steen
5) Two Awesome Hours, Josh Davis (electronic)
6) A Concise History of the Caribbean, B. W. Higman
7) Blue Moon, Laurell K. Hamilton (re-read, electronic)
8) Everland, Wendy Spinale (electronic)
9) The First Two Rules of Leadership, David Cottrell
10) Hanging Tree, Ben Aaronovitch
11) Hook, K. R. Thompson (electronic)
12) Lauren Ipsum, Carlos Bueno (electronic)
13) Redshirts, John Scalzi (electronic)
14) Agent of Change, Sharon Lee, Steve Miller (electronic)
15) Smartcuts, Shane Snow (electronic)
16) A Fork in the Road, ed. James Oseland (electronic)
17) A Criminal Defense, William L. Myers Jr. (electronic)
18) Soon I Will Be Invincible, Austin Grossman (electronic)
19) American Gods, Neil Gaiman (re-read, electronic)
20) Crooked House, Agatha Christie (electronic)
21) The Girl Who Circumnavigated Fairyland in a Ship of Her Own Making, Catherynne M. Valente (electronic)
22) Fortune's Formula, William Poundstone (electronic)
23) The Sculptor, Scott McCloud
24) Wet Grave, Barbara Hambly (electronic)
25) The Hanging Judge, Michael Ponsor (electronic)
26) In Light of India, Octavio Paz
27) The Drops of G-d, vol 1, Tadashi Agi, Shu Okimoto
28) Vanity Fare, Megan Caldwell (electronic)
29) Soho Dead, Greg Keen (electronic)
30) Princeless, short stories, Jeremy Whitley, et al.
31) Princeless, vol 3: The Pirate Princess, Jeremy Whitley, Rosy Higgins, Ted Brandt
32) Sphinx, Anne Garreta, trans. Emma Ramadan
33) Alex and Eliza, Melissa de la Cruz (electronic)
34) The Phoenix Project, Gene Kim, George Spafford, Kevin Behr
35) Days of the Dead, Barbara Hambly (electronic)
36) Dead Water, Barbara Hambly (electronic)
37) Dead and Buried, Barbara Hambly (electronic)
38) Rivers of London, vol 3: Black Mould, Ben Aaronovitch, Andrew Cartmel, Lee Sullivan, Luis Guerrero
39) The Angel Esmeralda, Don DeLillo
40) Tribal Leadership, Dave Logan, John King, Halee Fischer-Wright (electronic)
41) The Rules of Magic, Alice Hoffman
42) The Seven Wonders, Steven Saylor (electronic)
43) Death Comes to Pemberley, P. D. James (electronic)
44) One Man's Meat, E. B. White
45) Molly Fox's Birthday, Deirdre Madden
46) Great Ancient Civilizations of Asia Minor, Prof. Kenneth Harl (audio)
47) P. S. From Paris, Marc Levy (electronic)
48) A Beautiful Poison, Lydia Kang (electronic)
49) Five Nights in Paris, John Baxter (electronic)
50) Sister Emily's Lightship and other stories, Jane Yolen (electronic)
51) The Furthest Station, Ben Aaronovitch (electronic)
52) The Lost City of the Monkey God, Douglas Preston (electronic)

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[livejournal.com profile] mallorys_camera: Every era you awaken into tries to choke you, tries to derail you with its own urgency, its own frenzy, its own chaos. Meanwhile, off in a corner of your peripheral vision, the truly important things are taking place. -3/19/2017

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Alexander Hamilton: Beloved by you, I can be happy in any situation, and can struggle with every embarrassment of fortune with patience and firmness. -8/1/1780

Melissa de la Cruz: He had only his wits - his ability to see through to the heart of a situation quickly and to render that truth persuasively in words.

Vann R. Newkirk: it’s hard to square a group of men with Home Depot tiki torches, wrinkled khakis, bad haircuts, and a love of memes who came down to Emancipation Park with the blood-curdling menace of Klansmen in my mind’s eye. -8/12/2017

Megan McArdle: It's like the world’s biggest small town, replete with all the things that mid-century writers hated about small-town life: the constant gossip, the prying into your neighbor’s business, the small quarrels that blow up into lifelong feuds. We’ve replicated all of the worst features of those communities without any of the saving graces, like the mercy that one human being naturally offers another when you’re face to face and can see their suffering. -8/22/2017

Howard Mansfield: In history, unlike heredity, we choose our ancestors.

Sarah Kaplan, Ben Guarino: Wedding rings and uranium bombs are elemental echoes of these merging neutron stars. -10/16/2017
katestine: (glam)
Yes, I know this post is going up many months late, and yes, a lot has happened since then such that I can barely remember, but I want to record my new year's resolutions and you may be interested in what I've been up to.

The big story of 2016 for me was work. I spent the first 3.5 months as an intern at the same company I worked as a college intern and a fresh out of college grad. thoughts on my two jobs in 2016 ) My biggest challenge is realizing I may be more intelligent than most of the people I interact with, but omg are my people skills sucktacular. Like, I could probably read Lifehacker on this topic and learn a lot. oh well.

I got to do some nice trips in 2016. We had a family Spring Break in Puerto Rico, where we got to visit Buzz Lightyear; Lexan and I visited 'belle and her husband in Charlotte in May; Lexan and I went to Cape Cod with my parents for a workmoon; Jon and I went to New Orleans with 'belle, et al. for an amazing trip; and then our blended family went on a cruise out of NYC (ftw!) to Florida (where Lucky met 'belle) and the Caribbean.

I took about a dozen golf lessons but it didn't take ) My last game with Jon was wonderful because of the nice couple we played with, but I went to the climbing gym a week or two later with GMac and realized I'd given up a sport I was okay at to make a shitty golfer. I'd planned to give it up, but it's not really working out that way.

I only read 60 books last year, but many were very good. 19 were non-fiction, a very high percentage for me, and only 8 were re-reads. The Substance of Civilization was the materials science-human history book I didn't know I wanted; I finally finished John Gardiner's The Art of Fiction and Steven Johnson's Where Great Ideas Come From and was so glad I started them; and Andy Grove's High Output Management was also quite good. I read Tolstoy, Tom Wolfe, Hunter S. Thompson, and Shirley Ann Grau. I liked the 2 Michael Lewis books and the new John Ringo series I read last year more than I expected; I was disappointed by the latest Vorkosigan book and Kavalier & Clay. I read 10 books set in or about New Orleans, 7 of which were new to me.

My New Year's resolutions for last year were to more frequently ask myself, "Does this make my life simpler or better?" and "What is the most positive way I could take this?" and to spend some time every day completely focused on my son. I tried on the first, but there's always more work to be done. Most of 2016, I tried every day to record a "moment of wonder" with my son: some new accomplishment he'd had or moment of adorableness I wanted to treasure. In other words, I found a way to enumerate daily parenting. I think it helped.

For 2017, my resolutions are (1) to think more about the effect my actions and choices have on my husband and son; (2) to try harder to live up to my potential (e.g. just how many hours of computer games do I need to defrag from work); and (3) to attend a Jewish event that isn't Saturday morning services. I almost accomplished (3) because they were having a charity trivia event at the nearby Conservative synagogue. I should work on this.

2016 books

Dec. 31st, 2016 09:49 pm
katestine: (reading)
1) Word Puppets, Mary Robinette Kowal (electronic)
2) Power Cues, Nick Morgan (electronic)
3) The Death of Ivan Ilych, Leo Tolstoy (electronic)
4) Graveyard Dust, Barbara Hambly (electronic)
5) Night Watch, Sergei Lukyanenko (electronic)
6) The Substance of Civilization, Stephen L. Sass (electronic)
7) The Paradox of Choice, Barry Schwartz (electronic)
8) Nobody's Baby But Mine, Susan Elizabeth Phillips (re-read)
9) The Flux, Ferrett Steinmetz (electronic)
10) Gentleman Jole and the Red Queen, Lois McMaster Bujold
11) Flash Boys, Michael Lewis
12) First Lady, Susan Elizabeth Phillips (re-read)
13) Lady Be Good, Susan Elizabeth Phillips (re-read)
14) Nightbird, Alice Hoffman (electronic)
15) Death by Silver, Melissa Scott, Amy Griswold
16) The Rum Diary, Hunter S. Thompson (electronic)
17) Justice Calling, Annie Bellet (electronic)
18) Murder of Crows, Annie Bellet (electronic)
19) Pack of Lies, Annie Bellet (electronic)
20) The Blind Side, Michael Lewis
21) Shakespeare: The World as Stage, Bill Bryson (electronic)
22) Yesterday's Thief, Al Macy (electronic)
23) Ultimate Guide to Golf for Beginners, Robert Green (electronic)
24) Blood Orchids, Toby Neal (electronic)
25) Sleeping Embers of an Ordinary Mind, Anne Charnock (electronic)
26) A Spy's Guide to Thinking, John Braddock (electronic)
27) The Secrets of Mary Bowser, Lois Leveen (electronic)
28) The Art of Fiction, John Gardner
29) Rome and the Barbarians, Prof. Kenneth W. Harl (audio)
30) From Bauhaus to Our House, Tom Wolfe (electronic)
31) The Only Golf Lesson You'll Ever Need, Hank Haney, John Huggan (electronic)
32) The Long Ships, Frans G. Bengtsson, Michael Meyer (electronic)
33) Lady Be Good, Susan Elizabeth Phillips (re-read)
34) The House of Hades, Rick Riordan (electronic)
35) Rivers of London, vol 1: Body Work, Ben Aaronovitch, Andrew Cartmel, Lee Sullivan
36) Bad Action, James Swain (electronic)
37) The Writer's Diet, Helen Sword
38) Hidden Blade, Pippa DaCosta (electronic)
39) The McKinsey Mind, Ethan M. Rasiel, Paul N. Friga (half electronic)
40) Monster Hunter Memoirs: Grunge, Larry Correia, John Ringo
41) New Orleans Noir, ed. Julie Smith (electronic)
42) Liquor, Poppy Z. Brite (electronic, re-read)
43) Prime, Poppy Z. Brite (electronic, re-read)
44) Soul Kitchen, Poppy Z. Brite (electronic, re-read)
45) Harry Potter and the Cursed Child, Pts 1 and 2, J. K. Rowling, John Tiffany, Jack Thorne
46) New Orleans Noir: The Classics, ed. Julie Smith
47) First Star I See Tonight, Susan Elizabeth Phillips
48) Washington's Spies, Alexander Rose (electronic)
49) Sold Down the River, Barbara Hambly (electronic)
50) Die Upon a Kiss, Barbara Hambly (electronic)
51) The Condor Passes, Shirley Ann Grau
52) Simple Rules, Donald Sull, Kathleen M. Eisenhardt (audio)
53) The 5 A.M. Miracle, Jeff Sanders (electronic)
54) High Output Management, Andrew S. Grove (electronic)
55) Bright from the Start, Dr. Jill Stamm, Paula Spencer
56) Where Good Ideas Come From, Steven Johnson (half audio, half electronic)
57) The Change, Teyla Branton (electronic)
58) The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay, Michael Chabon (electronic)
59) The Far Side of the World, Patrick O'Brien (electronic, re-read)
60) Monster Hunter Memoirs: Sinners, Larry Correia, John Ringo

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Rebecca Traister: As a young Hillary hater, I often compared her to Darth Vader — more machine than woman, her humanity ever more shrouded by Dark Side gadgetry. These days, I think of her as General Leia: No longer a rebel princess, she has made a wry peace with her rakish mate and her controversial hair and is hard at work, mounting a campaign against the fascistic First Order. -5/30/2016

Wayne Barrett: He played every angle... I don't think he invented this manner of leverage, but it was certainly more than just donations... [Donald Trump] is an expert at compromising politicians. -6/1/2016

John Harris: Boris Johnson and David Cameron: the last four months has been a catastrophic contest between two men who went to the same exclusive school. -6/24/16

David Chang: the saltiness paradox has a very powerful effect, because it makes you very aware of what you’re eating and your own reaction to it. It nags at you, and it keeps you in the moment, thinking about what you’re tasting. And that’s what makes it delicious. -7/19/16

Don Winslow: I'm always amazed that progressive young millennials will picket a grocery chain for not buying fair-trade coffee but will go home and do drugs that are brought to them by the killers, torturers, and sadists of the cartels. -8/9/2016

[livejournal.com profile] lawnrrd: I don't know why you keep wanting me to trifle with a mere CB-6000 when I have two perfectly good kids. -8/23/16

Harley Flanagan: Scenes are for little kids. If you're grown up and still holding onto a scene for identity, then you haven't grown up. You've just gotten older. -8/31/16

Alan Moore: Human life as we experience it is a simultaneous multiplicity of genres. -9/8/16

Meta

Oct. 26th, 2016 01:40 pm
katestine: (glam)
I logged in to update my book list - 5 non-fiction in a row! some very high quality too! - and peeked at my friends list and was reminded what I've been missing. YOU! You're so interesting, but I'm supposed to be working before my 2pm call.

I'm trying to get back on LJ in general though. If I were very disciplined with my mornings, I could write again... instead of reading books on the bus to the subway :-/
katestine: (reading)
I assume there's something about the publishing calendar that caused me to read lots of new science fiction and fantasy books toward the end of last year and the beginning of this year. Some were amazing, but there was a lot that I couldn't finish.

Ready Player One isn't very newish, but I read it late last year and liked it so much, it was the only book I re-read last year. My ladylove complained that the female character was an NPC - I'd argue she's a Hermione and there's almost no character development for anyone in the book - but who doesn't love the poor kid who uses arcane knowledge to win in a dystopian world story? Non-nerds, maybe, since the book is all about 80s trivia.

I started 3 different books bc Neil Gaiman wrote (part of) them. The Sleeper and the Spindle was published as a standalone story in a heavily illustrated edition and is quite good if you like fairy tale retellings with a twist.

I'm not sure why I picked up Trigger Warning, considering I have no trouble finding disturbing books on my own and it's not like Neil Gaiman is known for heartwarming tales with fluffy bunnies and unicorns. I also don't get what the book is: I know I've read some of those stories before. At a certain point I came to my senses and put it down.

I read all but one of the stories in Rags & Bone, which also includes The Sleeper and the Spindle, but even as a completist, there was no way I would read a creepy retelling of "The Monkey's Paw". I didn't love any of the other stories enough to think the book worthwhile.

Naomi Novik's Uprooted is creepy and contains all the fairy tale elements, but is an amazing book selection from TRQ. It pays to be old friends with a MITSFS cardholder, let me tell you. It starts with the sacrificial maiden, who is far from perfect and very plucky, and gets epic. Highly recommended.

The Sword of Summer is the start of another Rick Riordan tetralogy, this one about Norse gods. More observant readers of his other books will find it interesting the hero's name is Magnus Chase. I started reading it right after reading Michael Chabon's essay about his relationship with Norse mythology, so I should've loved it. Instead, it irritated me, despite being set in Boston, and I have no desire to read any more from this series, even though I inhaled the Greek tetralogy and read all the Roman ones. Maybe someday I'll read the Egyptian one.

I was so excited to get my hands on Jim Butcher's Aeronaut's Windlass, but it was basically steampunk Honor Harrington - it even has cats!!!! - so I read the last 50 pages and decided I didn't care what happened to the characters in between. I don't understand what happened to all the depth his writing gained over the first dozen Harry Dresden, but I need to stop trying to read his books.

I loved Michael Chabon's Sherlock Holmes essay, so I got Kareem Abdul-Jabbar's Mycroft Holmes at the right time too. And still couldn't like it. Apparently the basketball player has taken up all sorts of hobbies since his NBA career ended and I'm totally cool with polymathic dilettantism. OTOH, it's not a very good book. It tries to give back story as to why this Holmes brother is such a loner, but it just doesn't feel true to what we know about Mycroft and instead feels like Marty Stuism.

I didn't read The Flux for four months after buying it, partly bc I read the free sample from Amazon and got turned off. I get that [livejournal.com profile] theferret was trying to do an action opening that quickly told us what the tensions were, but the more I think about it, the less I think it was appropriate to the characters or the rest of the book. The rest of the book is very good though and if you liked Flex at all, you'll probably like The Flux. I liked how he used the "obsession=magic" to create cinemancers although I really want to find that post someone wrote that explained all the references, bc while I noticed the mentions of Svtug Pyho, I missed the Sverfgnegre ones until the second reading.

I was all set to pay $15 for an early copy of Gentleman Jole and the Red Queen, bc not only is it the new Lois McMaster Bujold book, but it's about my favorite character, Cordelia. Then the early sample of the book on Baen's website read like fanfic and I decided to wait until the print copy came out, hoping it would get better. It did, a little. It's nothing like Cordelia's Honor or even A Civil Affair. In her mind, I think LMB thought she was writing a more mature book, that she could write a book that would be interesting without space battles, that allowed her to explore Cordelia's Betan side. She's written books like that - I really enjoyed Cryoburn and Lord Vorpatril's Alliance - but this book was boring. Once you know the big secret of the book, you've gotten half the pleasure of the book; the rest is just a telling of how that plays out in the post-Cryoburn world. Lots of things happen that remind me of the aimlessness of a lot of contemporary romance novels, although the last third of the book had a lot of great lines that made me LOL and/or scribble them down for my quotes page.

Sadly, the only book I'm anticipating at this point is the next Rivers of London book, which I don't expect to like and isn't out until August 2 :(
katestine: (signs in the stars)
I suppose it's a little ridiculous to write my New Years post in March, but I realized the other day that my 2015 started October 31, 2014 and ended November 7, 2015, so the difference between 2 months late and 4 months late is... well. October 31 was when I found out my cousin died, so with the 2 deaths in August and emotionally losing someone early in 2015, there was a lot of grief to process. November 8 was when Jon and I left for Florida in one of the year's few trips and when I got back, I began interviewing for the job I currently have. This internship will not last, but it's my first real job in 3.5 years - and my first after a year of being a stay at home mom - so it's a new chapter.

I didn't do much travel in 2015: we went to DC for DOWF in February; Lexan and I went to Charlotte in July; and then Jon and I went to Florida in November. I spent A LOT of time at my parents' house and learned a lot about them and their dynamic.

I only read 87 books in calendar 2015, partly bc the job thing cut into my reading. 18 of them were memoirs, not intentionally, but if the author is writing the book, s/he probably survived the terrible things narrated. The Last Policeman gave me nightmares all year and was totally worth it. I don't think I can narrow down my favorites to 5 books or authors, although I really liked Hard Thing about Hard Things, most of the books about New Orleans, Confidence Code, and Washington's Crossing. 30/87 were non-fiction, which is a new record for me, and only 1 was a re-read.

My resolutions for the year were to spend more time F2F and to eat less processed food. I didn't make much progress on either, despite going to Mommy group and Mommy & Me yoga for chunks of the year. I still don't have any friends in Brooklyn and I walk out of most meetings cringing at my social faux pas. Last night I commented to one of my closest Brooklyn "friends" (Jon's ex-wife) that she knows more dogs in Brooklyn than I know people. I dunno if I really ate more or less processed food in 2015, but I lost 15 lbs, so that's something.

My resolutions for 2016 are to more frequently ask myself, "Does this make my life simpler or better?" and "What is the most positive way I could take this?" and to spend some time every day completely focused on my son. The former is from a lot of things, including reading The Paradox of Choice (albeit at the beginning of 2016). The latter is because my biggest takeaway from 2015 (and becoming a parent) was that the work you put in everyday is who you are.
katestine: (reading)
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5) The Lieutenant Don't Know, Jeffrey Clement (electronic)
6) The Casablanca Tango, James Lileks (electronic)
7) Foxglove Summer, Ben Aaronovitch
8) Funny Girl, Nick Hornby
9) The Status Syndrome, Michael Marmot
10) Homage to Catalonia, George Orwell (electronic)
11) The Last Chinese Chef, Nicole Mones (electronic)
12) Great Esquire Fiction, ed. L. Rust Hills
13) Take Down, James Swain (electronic)
14) Where the West Ends, Michael J. Totten (electronic)
15) Being Mortal, Atul Gawande (electronic)
16) Golden Girl, Sarah Zettel‎
17) More of This World or Maybe Another, Barb Johnson
18) The Mark of Athena, Rick Riordan
19) Noodling for Flatheads, Burkhard Bilger
20) The Confidence Code, Katty Kay, Claire Shipman (electronic)
21) Fortune's Daughter, Alice Hoffman
22) Flex, Ferrett Steinmetz
23) Bear in the Back Seat I and II, Kim DeLozier, Carolyn Jourdan (electronic)
24) Obhaq, Zrybql Naar (electronic)
25) The Rebel Raiders, James Tertius deKay
26) Cevfbare, Lia Silver (electronic)
27) That First Season, John Eisenberg (electronic)
28) New Orleans, Mon Amour, Andrei Codrescu (electronic)
29) The Secret Life of Ms. Finkleman, Ben H. Winters (electronic)
30) Easy Go, Michael Crichton (electronic)
31) The Housewife Assassin's Handbook, Josie Brown (electronic)
32) Reasons Mommy Drinks, Lyranda Martin-Evans, Fiona Stevenson (electronic)
33) Life Hacks, Scott Britton (electronic)
34) Gumbo Tales, Sara Roahen
35) The Sandman, vol 4: Season of Mists, Neil Gaiman, Kelley Jones, Mike Dringenberg
36) Driftwood, Elizabeth Dutton
37) The Housewife Assassin's Guide to Gracious Killing, Josie Brown (electronic)
38) Destruction, Sharon Bayliss (electronic)
39) A Man's Word, Martin Jensen, Tara F. Chace (electronic)
40) Sorcery & Cecelia: or The Enchanted Chocolate Pot, Patricia C. Wrede, Caroline Stevermer (electronic)
41) Great Pharaohs of Ancient Egypt, Prof. Bob Brier (audiobook)
42) Starstruck Romance and Other Hollywood Tails, Julia Dumont (electronic)
43) Rough Riders, Theodore Roosevelt (electronic)
44) Operating Instructions, Anne Lamott (electronic)
45) Crow Hollow, Michael Wallace (electronic)
46) The Runestone Incident, Neve Maslakovic (electronic)
47) The Bellbottom Incident, Neve Maslakovic (electronic)
48) Pretty Good Number One, Matthew Amster-Burton (electronic)
49) Book of Bart, Ryan Hill (electronic)
50) Washington's Crossing, David Hackett Fischer (electronic)
51) New Orleans Mourning, Julie Smith (electronic)
52) The End of the Affair, Graham Greene, Colin Firth (audiobook)
53) The Glass Kitchen, Linda Francis Lee
54) Princeless, vol. 1: Save Yourself, Jeremy Whitley, M. Goodwin
55) Kingdom Come, Mark Waid, Alex Ross
56) Ybat Uneq Evqr, Lorelei James (electronic)
57) Two Years Before the Mast, Richard Henry Dana, Jr. (electronic)
58) A Model World and Other Stories, Michael Chabon (electronic)
59) The 3 Secrets to Effective Time Investment, Elizabeth Grace Saunders (electronic)
60) Word by Word, Anne Lamott (audiobook)
61) Expo 58, Jonathan Coe (electronic)
62) Princeless, vol. 2: Get Over Yourself, Jeremy Whitley, M. Goodwin
63) A Free Man of Color, Barbara Hambly (electronic)
64) A Wrinkle in Time, Madeleine L'Engle
65) Crisis in Candyland, Jan Pottker
66) Ready Player One, Ernest Cline (electronic)
67) Fever Season, Barbara Hambly (electronic)
68) Marriage of Opposites, Alice Hoffman
69) Fitness Confidential, Vinnie Tortorich, Dean Lorey (electronic)
70) Football 101, Gilbert Klein (electronic)
71) Brotherhood of Warriors, Aaron Cohen, Douglas Century (electronic)
72) Liquor, Poppy Z. Brite (electronic)
73) Prime, Poppy Z. Brite (electronic)
74) Soul Kitchen, Poppy Z. Brite (electronic)
75) Second Line, Poppy Z. Brite (electronic)
76) First Frost, Sarah Addison Allen (electronic)
77) Ready Player One, Ernest Cline (electronic, re-read)
78) The Devil You Know, Poppy Z. Brite (electronic)
79) The Sleeper and the Spindle, Neil Gaiman, Chris Riddell
80) Alesia 52 BC, Nic Fields (electronic)
81) Conversation Tactics, Patrick King (electronic)
82) Uprooted, Naomi Novik (electronic)
83) The Sword of Summer, Rick Riordan
84) Mycroft Holmes, Kareem Abdul-Jabbar (electronic)
85) Maps and Legends, Michael Chabon (electronic)
86) The Dark Side of The Road, Simon Green (electronic)
87) One-Eyed Jack, Elizabeth Bear (electronic)

**

quotes )

George Orwell: I have recorded some of the outward events, but I cannot record the feeling they have left me with. It is all mixed up with sights, smells, and sounds that cannot be conveyed in writing.

Burkhard Bilger: the older our country grows, the weaker our traditions seem to become; the more varied our food, the more predictable our cooking.

My ladylove: I'm just opposed to you beating yourself up over things that are completely outside of your control.

Elizabeth Dutton: Sometimes I think we stay still and the backdrop just rotates behind us.

Tennessee Williams: A high station in life is earned by the gallantry with which appalling experiences are survived with grace.

Richard Henry Dana Jr.: We must come down from our heights, and leave our straight paths, for the byways and low places of life, if we would learn truths by strong contrasts; and in hovels, in forecastles, and among our own outcasts in foreign lands, see what has been wrought upon our fellow-creatures by accident, hardship, or vice.

Poppy Z. Brite: He needed to be able to handle other people's crises now, not to be floored by his own. The glamour of the emotional, screeching chef was just a cliche, it didn't do anybody any good in real life.

Sarah Addison Allen: The men in their lives loved them the way astronomers loved stars, loved the promise of what they were, knowing there was something about them they would never truly understand.

Michael Chabon: Superheroism is a kind of transvestism; our superdrag serves at once to obscure the exterior self that no longer defines us while betraying, with half-unconscious panache, the truth of the story we carry in our hearts, the story of our transformation, of our story's recommencement, of our rebirth into the world of adventure, of story itself.

TWH: Learning about every available option is resource-intensive and high-labor, and doing that for every field is effectively a denial of service attack to memory and cope...options should be presented when possible with a few curated ones that experts in the field would recommend, and then a roll-your-own style version if that doesn't suffice. -11/28/15

[livejournal.com profile] immemor: If you need to march someone through the door of opportunity, it probably wasn't the right door for them. -12/1/15
katestine: (reading)
Yes, I'm a year late in writing the second part of this post, but on the other hand, I got really, really busy right after I wrote it, ya know? And of course, parenting has become much less theoretical since I wrote it and the startup life has become very much more theoretical. I still think they have a lot in common, that the keys to both putting in the work and getting up every time you're knocked down. Megan McArdle, Eric Ries, and others seem to agree.

Megan McArdle's The Up Side of Down is all about failing well, which includes getting comfortable with failure (by making lots of low-cost mistakes early in life) so that you will have the confidence to try, try again. It's a great companion to Tierney and Baumeister's Willpower, with a chapter each on various aspects of failure. It was recommended by Marginal Revolution, but the point where I started realized how much I could learn from the book was in the first chapter, where McArdle explains that very smart people often procrastinate like crazy because they are more terrified of failure than people who have failed more frequently, so in her own personal example, she procrastinated when she had articles to write on a strict deadline, because as long as it wasn't written, it couldn't be terrible.

The founder of the startup I worked at recommended The Lean Startup, but the smartest guy in the company pooh poohed it. I'm glad I read it, because this is the language of the community I was trying to join, but there's little to distinguish it from Six Sigma, which of course is a repackaging of the scientific method. I'm impressed by how Eric Ries has spawned an entire industry and I really miss having an economic historian with whom to mock this sort of book.

In contrast, Ben Horowitz's The Hard Thing about Hard Things is so very good, I commented that I wanted to read it every year. My husband pointed out that what I really want is to have a job where reading it every year is valuable. For those who don't recognize the name, Horowitz is the second name on Andreessen Horowitz, aka the venture firm where the Netscape founder now spends his days. Horowitz started as a product manager at Netscape, became a VP there, and later co-founded Loudcloud with Andreessen, becoming its president and CEO. There's a lot of insights about running a young company and being a CEO. I particularly liked his comments on being a wartime vs. peacetime CEO, pointing out that business school case studies often talk about being a CEO in peacetime, but don't distinguish or discuss what it's like to be a CEO in wartime, possibly because it's awful. Hard Thing is about the awful parts and how you get through them, with some insights into managing in general from someone who is really, really smart. It would also have fit well into my upcoming I swear! review of historic leadership books because so much of it is about the .com bust.

I had other modern business leadership books in my queue, but I'm still trying to see a way I'll have need of their knowledge ever again. I ought to be reading more books about children, but I'm not doing much of that either. *sighs*

Edit: It wasn't until I was checking the formatting of the finished post that I saw the deep irony of the post's end. *bangs head on desk*
katestine: (reading)
We didn't have much in the way of plans for last weekend, so I pinged my siblings, who told me last minute they were going to the Hester Street Fair, which was a food festival guess where. It was like Smorgasburg, this past summer's obsession I failed to write about during the interregnum, except with more Asian food. When I got there, my siblings were queued for short ribs cooked with marrow, which is the opposite of surprising. (I'd had it at Smorgasburg and it was okay: if it were served with the right wine and the right sides, instead of trying to eat it standing up, it would probably be delicious.) There were two different vendors selling gumbo, next to someone selling fresh beignets and it made me realize I never wrote up my thoughts on books recommended/mentioned in my last New Orleans book post.

I'd heard Barbara Hambly's name before, apparently from TRQ, but I'd never read her Benjamin January books. They were perfect for what I wanted, a story that introduced the realities of early nineteenth century New Orleans and dealt with race relations and "commerce". Her writing is occasionally lyrical and better than I'd expect from a fantasy writer. The main character lived in Paris for a time, during roughly the same period as Alex Dumas, so it was fascinating to hear his musings on the differences between France of the time and Americanizing New Orleans. I liked them very much, but stopped after the second book, because the free man of color who is the series' protagonist put himself in so much danger in each one, my heart was in my mouth and I couldn't stand it any more. I know there are 13 books in the series, so it's unlikely he'll actually be sold down the river or killed, but still. The next one deals more with voodoo, which is one part of New Orleans I'm less into, but maybe I should give it another try. How many times can he get caught by unscrupulous slave dealers anyhow?

Poppy Z. Brite's Liquor series is at completely the other end of the spectrum, being about poor white chefs in the 21st century. It was also so amazingly what I wanted to read, I shoveled them up as fast as I could and bought two books of short stories just so I could strain out a little more time with the characters. (Almost every book I read comes from the library or borrowed from friends, so this is actually huge.) I so want to go to the restaurant featured in the book, with the gimmick that every dish is made with alcohol. PZB apparently also has a sordid history of writing vampire fiction and I wish she'd had the courage to avoid the mysteries in each of the novels, trusting that her insider's knowledge of restaurant kitchens - and yat life - would be enough to hold the reader's interest, because the mysteries were a bit over the top. The novellas and short stories suggested she had plenty of material to do so. Unfortunately, it seems that due to some issues with her publishers, there will be no more in this series, even if she hadn't retired. It was also interesting to read the short story collections because she calls out in the introduction that some of those stories are about an alternate universe her, one who is the coroner of New Orleans and also a dedicated foodie. It's also very interesting to read her take on a gay male relationship, given that she transitioned after writing the last of these books.

Intimate Enemies is on many lists of books to read before visiting New Orleans because it is the biography of the woman responsible for quite a bit of French Quarter architecture and probably gives quite the introduction to townie Creole society at its inflection point. I should be fascinated by it, because she lived in both France and New Orleans, and the first chapter was an interesting introduction to turn of the century New Orleans. Also, her father-in-law shot her multiple times and killed himself afterwards. Alas the book is over 400 pages - in part because the author wanted to show all her research - so after reading the last chapter, which includes the disposition of her will, which suggested the book would be about family squabbles, I gave up.
katestine: (capt bond)
Back in May, I decided to start getting my life in order: every month, I would focus on building one good habit. In June, it was bedtime: my goal was to brush my teeth by 9:30pm every night, because once my teeth are brushed, I'm on my way to bed. It's been honored more in the breach, but just setting a goal has gotten me to bed more regularly. Three months later - and after the school year forced me to get up at 6:15 2-3 times a week - it seems to have gotten me into a very regular sleep cycle, as long as I read the right stuff at bedtime.

At the end of June, I started working on diet, which was to be July's goal. I was disgusted by my not-very-successful attempt to climb in mid-June; the baby had been out as long as he'd been in and I was still 20 lbs overweight. Moreover, my weight was starting to creep up, which was absurd. I read Jorge Cruise's The 100 and Mark Sisson's Primal Blueprint Cookbook for ideas on how to cut carbs and eat more in line with how I know my body prefers. Read more... ) I lost 5 lbs in the first week - based on prior experiments with low carb, I'm taking that to mean I carry 5 lbs of water when I'm not eating lower carb - and hit 10 lbs down within 2 months, although I hovered in that area all through September thanks to too much time with my parents (who don't support my diet and also have delicious mushu shrimp). The Sisson book was rather less helpful: I believe grassfed beef is better than cornfed, but I can't be arsed to make my own mayo or make the substitutions in the book. oh well.

August was getting my workouts back on track. I'd been working out at home for months at that point and I think those workouts were pretty good: swings, goblet squats, and rows with a 25lb kettlebell, lots of Romanian deadlifts, yoga workshops when I could get Jon to watch the baby. They would have been a lot better though if I'd read Dan John on fat loss or even Fat Loss Happens on Monday, his "collaboration" with Josh Hillis. Read more... )

Tim Ferriss' 4 Hour Body is a more scientific, less hand-holding book that covers a lot of the same material as Cruise and Hillis. He's got a lot of good stuff in there, but it's a hodgepodge of stuff he tried that worked when he did it instead of a plan. He quotes everyone from NFL combine consultants to Nina Hartley. My favorite statistician hates that book bc n=1, but I'm much more likely to re-read his book than Hillis'.

I ended up rejoining NYSC, bc the one in my neighborhood is $20/month, with a $10/month charge for unlimited babysitting (and $110 in sunk costs). The babysitting alone makes it worthwhile and makes me wish I'd signed up for it 6 months ago, because there were a lot of days when I would've paid $10 to hand my child to someone and take a shower with unlimited hot water, even if I had to bring my own towel.

I ended up following the Starting Strength program, which worked )

September was just a mess, between Jon being gone on a father-son vaca for the first week (so I was in Ct), the start of a new school for Lucky, and the high holidays, so I didn't even try for a habit. I bought 2 more Dan John books, Easy Strength and Can You Go? and followed a plan from the first book of his I read. Unfortunately, I'm also injured: my right hip is just unhappy, with inflammation ranging from my groin to the outside to under the butt cheek, depending on the day. It sucks. I stopped lifting or running, then I stopped yoga, and now I just stopped doing anything but taking the baby places (although I briefly thought babywearing might be the problem), although this morning I did some PT-ish exercises.

I had a conversation with Bbro where he talked about the community aspect of his Crossfit and triathlon practices and I confess I wish I had community for my workouts. I mean, I'd like a coach too, but I disbelieve I could find a local coach I trusted.

Just before this injury became a showstopper, I signed up for ClassPass *facepalm* AISOFB, I love love love the spinning-but-with-treadmills class I took (right as the injury was manifesting) and I'm looking forward to taking parkour, bouldering lessons, aerial hoop, pole, and maybe pilates when I'm better. I'm calling it my own personal CrossFit, because I'm basically demanding that my body constantly be up for any modality of exercise. Did I mention that before the injury, I'd worked up to a 3mi run again and was considering wind sprints on one of the piers?

October's habit was supposed to be job-hunting, but a) that's not going very well at all and b) that's a whole nuther post.

Edit: Apparently I worked on this post for a month, which is good because it needed a proofread and because the first version was a lot more angsty and I've worked through some of the problems I had a month ago, although I wasn't injured then so. The original included a bit about how getting 3 things done used to be my floor for a reasonably productive day; now it's an aspiration and an LJ entry is A Thing.

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